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Embracing A Spirit of Thanks: Gratitude and Its Transformative Power

As the leaves fall and the air turns crisp, the anticipation of the holiday season fills the hearts of many. It’s a time when families gather, and tables are adorned with a feast that reflects abundance and generosity. Beyond the delicious aroma of culinary delights and the joy of shared meals, the end of November is time that beckons us to reflect on gratitude—a powerful force that has the potential to transform our lives.

Gratitude as a Transformative Force

Gratitude is more than a fleeting emotion or a polite expression of thanks. It is a transformative force that can profoundly impact our mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Research in positive psychology has consistently shown the numerous benefits of cultivating a grateful mindset. Here are just a few good ways that fostering appreciation helps in our daily lives.

Positive Impact on Mental Health

Expressing gratitude has been linked to improved mental health. When we focus on the positive aspects of our lives, even in the face of challenges, it can contribute to a more optimistic outlook. Gratitude acts as a natural mood enhancer, reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety. It serves as a reminder that, amidst life’s difficulties, there are always reasons to be thankful.

Strengthening Relationships

Thanksgiving provides a unique opportunity to strengthen bonds with family and friends. Sharing expressions of gratitude fosters a sense of connection and understanding. It deepens relationships by acknowledging the value of others in our lives. Whether it’s a heartfelt conversation over dinner or a simple note of appreciation, these gestures contribute to building a supportive and nurturing social network.

Enhancing Physical Well-Being

The benefits of gratitude extend beyond mental and emotional well-being to our physical health. Studies have shown that individuals who regularly practice gratitude experience lower levels of stress and improved sleep quality. The mind-body connection is evident, highlighting the holistic impact of cultivating gratitude in our lives.

Nurturing a Grateful Mindset

While the end of November serves as a reminder to express gratitude, incorporating this mindset into our daily lives is key to unlocking its transformative power. Here are practical ways to nurture a grateful mindset year-round:

Keep a Gratitude Journal

Take a few minutes each day to reflect on the positive aspects of your life and jot them down in a gratitude journal. Whether it’s the warmth of the sun on your face, the support of a friend, or a small accomplishment, acknowledging these moments can shift your focus towards gratitude.

Express Gratitude Verbally

Don’t underestimate the power of spoken words. Take the time to express gratitude to those around you. It could be a sincere compliment, a thank-you note, or a simple “I appreciate you.” Verbalizing your gratitude not only uplifts others but also reinforces positive emotions within yourself.

Practice Mindfulness

Engage in mindfulness practices that encourage you to be present in the moment. Whether it’s through meditation, deep breathing, or simply paying attention to your surroundings, mindfulness can help you recognize and appreciate the beauty in everyday life.

Volunteer and Give Back

An effective way to cultivate gratitude is by giving back to the community. Volunteering not only makes a positive impact on others but also provides a perspective shift. Witnessing the challenges faced by others can deepen your appreciation for the blessings in your own life.

Traditions of Thankfulness

As we delve into ways we can offer thankfulness, it’s worth exploring the diverse traditions that families and communities have adopted to express gratitude. From the classic Thanksgiving feast to volunteering at local shelters, these traditions foster a sense of togetherness and reinforce the values of gratitude and generosity.

The Thanksgiving Feast

The centerpiece of Thanksgiving traditions is undoubtedly the grand feast. Families come together to prepare and share a meal that often includes a succulent turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, and an array of side dishes and desserts. The act of gathering around the table symbolizes unity, gratitude, and the joy of shared abundance.

Gratitude Circles

Some families have embraced the tradition of forming gratitude circles, where each member takes a turn expressing what they are thankful for. This ritual not only strengthens family bonds but also encourages everyone to reflect on the positive aspects of their lives.

Acts of Kindness

In addition to expressing gratitude within the family, some individuals and communities use Thanksgiving as an opportunity to perform acts of kindness. This could involve delivering meals to those in need, participating in charitable events, or simply spreading kindness in the form of small gestures.

Beyond Thanksgiving

May this time of year remind us that giving thanks is more than a one-day celebration; it’s a reminder to cultivate a mindset of gratitude that can transform our lives. As we gather with loved ones and partake in festive traditions, let us not forget the profound impact of expressing our gratefulness. By incorporating gratitude into our daily lives, we can experience improved mental health, strengthened relationships, and a greater sense of well-being.

Our hope is that the spirit of gratitude permeates every moment, fostering a deep appreciation for the blessings that surround us. As we reflect on the positive aspects of gratefulness and the traditions that bind us, may we carry the transformative power of gratitude into every season of our lives.

Celebrating Giving Tuesday

Whether you’re buying gifts or donating time, money, or physical items to those in need, giving is a fantastic thing to do. You may prefer to focus on the altruism of giving, but you can also appreciate the payback for yourself —  studies show that giving can actually boost your physical and mental health. In this blog, to celebrate the season of giving, we’ll explore the history and cultural impact of Giving Tuesday, along with the benefits of giving and a few simple ways that you can start today.

A Look at Giving Tuesday

Giving Tuesday is the Tuesday after Thanksgiving in the United States. It’s a “global generosity movement unleashing the power of people and organizations to transform their communities and the world.” Giving Tuesday is present in 75 countries, each representing their own cultures and needs, while remaining united in their determination to mobilize their countries around generosity and shared humanity.1

GivingTuesday Radical Generosity Concept

Pictured: Radical generosity concept   Source: GivingTuesday

Giving Tuesday was initiated in 2012 by Henry Timms at the 92nd Street Y in New York. The co-founding organization was the United Nations Foundation, along with help from BLK SHP (Black Sheep). Giving Tuesday has received support from The Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, Craig Newmark Philanthropies, Emerson Collective, Fidelity Charitable, the Ford Foundation, the Ford Motor Company, PayPal, the William and Flora Hewlett Foundation, and more.2

To learn more about Giving Tuesday and how you can participate, click here

The Benefits of Giving

“If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.”  – Chinese Proverb

While holiday shopping can be stressful, remembering the ‘why’ behind our gifting helps spirits stay high. New studies attest to the benefits of giving — not just for the recipients but for the givers’ happiness and health, and for the strength of entire communities. Here’s a more in-depth look at the benefits of giving:

Generosity Can Be Great for Your Brain

Have you ever witnessed someone doing something nice for another person? Next time that happens, try to pay attention to the person doing the giving and you may notice how they light up with happiness; this is nicknamed the “giver’s glow.” Additionally, according to researchers at Stony Brook University, altruistic behavior releases endorphins in the brain, producing a positive feeling known as the “helper’s high.”3

Generosity Can Be Good for Your Health

A wide range of research has linked generosity to better health, even among the sick and elderly. In his book, Why Good Things Happen to Good People, Stephen Post, a professor of preventative medicine, says, “giving to others has been shown to increase health benefits in people with chronic illnesses, including HIV and multiple sclerosis.”4

Researchers suggest that one reason giving may improve physical health is that it can decrease stress, which contributes to an array of health-related issues. In a 2006 study, for example, people who provided social support to others had lower blood pressure than participants who didn’t, suggesting a direct physiological benefit to those who give.5

Giving May Promote Cooperation and Social Connection

Several studies have suggested that when you give, your generosity will likely be rewarded by others down the line. These exchanges promote a sense of trust and cooperation that can strengthen our ties to others — and research has shown that having positive social interactions is central to good mental and physical health.6 

Additionally, when we give to others, we don’t only make them feel closer to us, but we also feel closer to them. “Being kind and generous leads you to perceive others more positively and more charitably,” writes Sonja Lyubomirsky in her book, The How of Happiness, which “fosters a heightened sense of interdependence and cooperation in your social community.”7

Giving Can Evoke Gratitude

Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end of a gift, that gift can elicit feelings of gratitude, and research has found that gratitude is integral to happiness, health, and social bonds. In fact, a study found that expressing gratitude to a close friend or partner strengthens our sense of connection to that person.8

Barbara Fredrickson, a pioneering happiness researcher, says that cultivating gratitude in everyday life is one of the keys to personal happiness. “When you express your gratitude, you not only boost your own positivity but other people’s as well,” she writes in her book, Positivity. “And in the process, you reinforce their kindness and strengthen your bond to one another.”9

Giving May Be Contagious

One study found that when a person is generous, it can create a ripple effect. Researchers found that altruism could spread by three degrees — from person to person to person to person. “As a result,” they wrote, “each person in a network can influence dozens or even hundreds of people, some of whom he or she does not know and has not met.”10, 11

Simple Ways to Give

“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” – Mahatma Gandhi

With busy schedules and ingrained habits, making time for giving may feel like a daunting challenge, but there are actually tons of quick and free ways to give back to your community, friends, and family. Here are simple ways you can start giving today:

    • Spend time with others. Our time is often worth more than our money these days, and spending it on someone with nothing to gain for ourselves is a beautiful gift. Try cooking a new recipe with a friend/family member or just spend time chatting; either way, remember that quality time doesn’t have to be structured to be meaningful.
    • Perform acts of kindness. You can perform an act of kindness almost anywhere and at anytime. You can be as creative and involved as you want — devoting days to an elaborate project or doing good in just a few seconds. Click here to learn more about acts of kindness and how you can take part. 
    • Make someone laugh. It’s been said that “laughter is the antifreeze of the soul.”  Particularly on a cold day, it helps keep us going and allows us to be cheery when things seem a little dreary. Laughing has also been proven to be one of the most potent antidepressants. To learn more about the power of laughter and smiling, click here
    • Be grateful. A simple “thank you” can mean the world. Donations and charity work are great ways to give back, but just offering your genuine appreciation for friends and family can boost their mood, along with yours. Plus, gratitude also improves your relationships — and practicing thanks can make you more generous over time.
    • Donate blood. A single blood donation can save the lives of 3 people. If you’re able, try going into your local blood drive to give blood. If you’re feeling inspired, visit the American Red Cross to learn more about how you can host a blood drive event.
    • Volunteer in your community. Think of an issue that you’re passionate about or a need that you see in your local community. Then, search for charities that aim to help and see how you can volunteer. Donating your time doesn’t just make you feel good, but it’s also a great way to give back.
    • Donate to a charity that you believe in. Giving money to a worthy cause is an extremely generous act. Your donation will allow tons of passionate, knowledgeable individuals to continue doing good in the world. Remember that even a little can make a big difference!
    • Spread good news. Sometimes the world can feel a little dark, so try to brighten someone’s day in a positive way. There are always great things happening out there — in your community, in the world, or even in your circle of friends. Do what you can to make sure the people around you get to experience some of those highlights.  

“Give One Get One” with Humanist Beauty On Giving Tuesday 

To make giving a little easier, Humanist Beauty is holding a “Give One Get One” Sale that’s starting on Giving Tuesday (November 29th). During this event, we’ll double all full-price items in your cart (excludes bundles and sale items). In addition, we’re giving a FREE Jasper Buddha Bracelet valued at $20 to every order over $100. Use promo code LOVEMORE22 at checkout to activate. Sale ends at midnight on December 8th. 

What’s your favorite way to give? Let us know in the comments!

 

References:

https://www.givingtuesday.org/about/ [1][2]

https://health.usnews.com/health-news/health-wellness/articles/2015/05/01/what-generosity-does-to-your-brain-and-life-expectancy [3]

https://news.stonybrook.edu/newsroom/press-release/general/122111stephenpost/ [4]

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/5_ways_giving_is_good_for_you [5]

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/images/uploads/Simpson-AltruismReciprocity.pdf [6]

https://braininjurysvcs.org/why-giving-is-good-for-you/ [7]

https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier [8]

https://www.pursuit-of-happiness.org/history-of-happiness/barb-fredrickson/ [9]

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/03/100308151049.htm [10]

https://www.thecable.ng/science-attests-to-the-principle-of-giving [11]

The Benefits of Journaling

From travel journals to dream and prayer journals, many people write down their thoughts to keep aspirations alive and moments concrete for manifestation and remembrance. Without diarists like Anne Frank and Samuel Pepys, we wouldn’t know much about the personal side of some great historical figures. Although people nowadays keep blogs or vlogs to record their lives on social media, very few of us jot in a journal or handwrite our experiences. Personal journals, which many believe to be a thing of the past, have a multitude of benefits for mental health and creativity. Let’s explore the reasons why keeping a journal can be beneficial for you and how you can begin your own journaling practice.

1.  Journaling Stretches Your IQ

While it’s a hot topic, there are strong cases to support journaling’s ability to increase your IQ. A report by the University of Victoria, for example, noted that “Writing as part of language learning has a positive correlation with intelligence.”1

Journaling is an exploration of language, so you’ll likely have the natural urge to search for new words and increase your vocabulary. The report from the University of Victoria goes on to say that one of the best single measures of overall IQ as measured by intelligence tests is vocabulary.2

A few tips to help stretch your IQ while journaling are:

  • Try exploring and writing about a new topic.
  • Challenge yourself to look up a new vocabulary word daily and use it in your writing.
  • Read a book or magazine you’ve never read and write about what you learned.

You can find out more about writing to boost your intelligence here.

2.  Journaling Reduces Stress

It’s been proven that an overabundance of stress can be damaging to your physical, mental, and emotional health.3 Journaling can be an incredible stress management tool by lessening the impact of the physical stressors you deal with daily.

A study administered by Cambridge found that expressive writing, such as journaling, was especially therapeutic and the participants who wrote about traumatic, stressful, or emotional events were significantly less likely to get sick and less seriously affected by trauma.4 Additionally, James W. Pennebaker, a lead researcher on expressive writing at the University of Texas and the author of Writing to Heal, has found that when we translate a stressful experience or secret into language by writing it down, we essentially make the experience graspable.5

A few journaling prompts to reduce stress are:

  • Right now, I feel challenged by ______. However, I feel supported by ______.
  • What can I do at this moment to bring more peace into my being?
  • What are some accomplishments and victories of today?
  • If you could choose any place or scenario (real or imaginary) to place yourself in right now for your comfort and relaxation, where would it be? Describe it in as much detail as possible.
  • What fears am I holding onto that are no longer serving me? How can I release these?

You can find more prompts to bring peace into your being here.

3.  Journaling Improves Communication Skills

Putting your thoughts to paper forces you to articulate your ideas and, in turn, find words that express those ideas accurately and concisely. Additionally, since journaling is more free-flowing than writing an essay or job report, it will allow you to better express your emotions, no matter what the emotion may be. Since you’re writing in a judgment-free zone with a less formal structure, you’ll most likely explore new areas of expressiveness.

According to a Stanford report, writing has critical connections to speaking.6 Journaling is a form of written communication, albeit to oneself. However, the subvocalization of tracing your written thoughts naturally translates into actual vocalization.

A few journaling prompts to improve your communication skills are:

  • List three people who you think have excellent communication skills. What about them do you admire?
  • How do you communicate?
  • On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your communication skills? What are your strengths? What are some areas that might need a little improvement?
  • How does your self-confidence impact your communication?
  • How can you improve your active listening skills?

You can find more tips and prompts to help you enhance your communication skills here.

4.  Journaling Promotes Healing

Science has proven that expressive writing is a route to healing emotionally, physically, and psychologically. James W. Pennebaker has seen improved immune function and a reduction of yearly doctor visits due to writing. Additionally, writing about trauma can be a potent and low-cost method of relieving pain and symptoms of chronic illnesses.7

In a study from 2013, researchers in New Zealand found that 76% of adults who spent 20 minutes writing about their thoughts and feelings for three consecutive days two weeks before a medically necessary biopsy were fully healed 11 days later. Plus, expressive writing for 15 to 20 minutes a day three to five times throughout a four-month period was enough to lower blood pressure and have better liver functionality.8

A few journaling prompts to promote the healing of your mind, body, and soul are:

  • What can I do to make a positive difference in my life?
  • Have a conversation with your body to understand any illnesses or pain you are currently experiencing.
  • What do you need to let go of that you have no control over?
  • Is there an experience inside your head that won’t seem to go away? What is it? Why does it haunt you?
  • If you are struggling, write a letter to a loved one.

You can find more tips and prompts for holistic healing here.

5.  Journaling Boosts Self-Confidence

Journaling is a powerful tool for reversing feelings of low self-worth. If you struggle with negative beliefs about yourself, reading about positive experiences that you previously journaled allows your brain to relive them and reaffirms your abilities when self-doubt appears. These reflections can become a catalog of personal achievements that you continue to go back to. Studies have shown that by reading happy entries, your body will naturally release endorphins and dopamine, which can boost your self-esteem and mood.9

It’s human nature to focus on our weaknesses while downplaying our strengths. It’s hard to be objective, which is why a journal is helpful. When journaling, try to remember that the small things matter. List your good qualities and try to use positive adjectives. Show yourself love and write about yourself in the same way you might describe a best friend or loved one.

A few journaling prompts to boost self-confidence are:

  • What is the best compliment you’ve been given?
  • Name 5 things you did right today, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant.
  • Write about a time you were recognized for your accomplishments at work or school.
  • CONFIDENCE: Write what this word means to you. How can you improve your confidence?
  • List 5 things you’re most grateful for in your life today.

You can find more prompts to promote self-confidence and self-love here.

6.  Journaling Sparks Creativity

The act of writing itself stimulates the imagination. When you formulate or express ideas on paper it automatically releases your proverbial creative juices. Writing regularly helps you learn to process and communicate complex information while at the same time allowing you to brainstorm new ideas.

You can journal about anything important to you without being judged or critiqued. It’s a stream-of-consciousness exercise that in itself is a form of creativity. Because you’re exploring your thoughts, feelings, and emotions in an unfiltered manner, you can sometimes find answers to very deep questions and then become inspired to explore those revelations further.

A few journaling prompts to spark your creativity are:

  • If you could invent something to make your life easier, how would it work and what would it do?
  • The next time you’re out, pay attention to the nametags of people working in stores or restaurants. Write an imagined life for one or more of them.
  • Write about a treasured memory and what makes it so special.
  • What does love look like? What does it feel like?
  • What question would you most like to know the answer to?

You can find more prompts to help stimulate your creativity here.

How to Start Your Journaling Practice

Starting a journal can seem intimidating at first. Like any other new ritual, it can take a while before it becomes a natural part of your life.

Here are some tips to help you start and keep a journal.

  • Find the journaling techniques that work for you. Many people recognize the additional benefits of physically hand-writing entries; however, if you feel more comfortable starting with a keyboard, you can type up your journal on your computer or phone, then transcribe to hand-written entries in smaller sessions.
  • Let go of judgments (write for your eyes only). When you’re writing, it’s important to feel the uninhibited freedom of whatever is on your mind. Practice self-compassion and leave your inner critic at the door. Journaling is a judgment-free zone. Be yourself and write what you feel.
  • Be realistic with your expectations. When you first begin journaling, don’t expect to write pages upon pages filled with insightful thoughts. Having unrealistic expectations can discourage you from continuing your journaling practice if you don’t immediately see progress. Like any other habit, set realistic goals and take baby steps toward results.
  • Create a writing routine. Creating a writing routine and scheduling journaling time can help you stay on track, even on days when you’re feeling uninspired. For example, you can set time aside every morning after breakfast or every evening before bed, even if it’s just for five to ten minutes. This time blocking method allows you to prioritize journaling and incorporate it into your schedule.
  • Journal about anything that comes to mind. When it comes to what you want to write about, the possibilities are limitless. You can write about your day, your thoughts and emotions, or something that inspired you. You can also use it as an outlet to release heavy emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness. Putting these feelings down on paper can free you from having them lingering in your mind.

Different Types of Journals to Consider

There are many different types of journals; for example, you could have a wine journal, a plant journal, or an anything-goes doodle journal. The key is that there is no right or wrong subject ma when it comes to journaling. You can have several journals going at one time, or you can have one for all subjects. Anything goes.

If you’re having trouble making a selection, here are a few types of journals you can start to begin your journey:

  • Gratitude Journal: Taking note of what you’re thankful for is a great journal to have. Each night before bed, try thinking of three things you’re thankful for instead of your stresses, worries, and concerns. Jotting down a few notes every night before bed is a great way to reflect on positivity, and it also enables you to revisit these thoughts later on.
  • Dream Journal: Dreams can be powerful, peculiar, happy, sad, and everything in between, but most people tend to forget them after a few hours. Getting in the habit of writing down your dreams each morning gives them significance and is a great way to start the day.
  • Hobby Journal: Try writing about a hobby that you’re passionate about. You can add in new projects, challenges, and things you’ve learned. If you have more than one hobby, try splitting the journal into different sections. You can write about what you’re working on that day and keep them in different tabs rather than worrying about chronology. Do what works for you.
  • Personal Journal: These types of journals are usually known as a diary. However, with a personal journal, the possibilities are endless. Try writing about your day, what made you happy, what made you sad, what made you angry, and anything else that’s on your mind. Journaling for a few minutes every night is a great way to reflect and release some of your inner monologues.
  • Travel Journal: A travel journal can be a collection of all sorts of things – photos, postcards, receipts, ticket stubs, and notes of where you’ve been and where you aspire to be. Traveling is a great way to experience new cities, sights, sounds, and cultures, and by documenting these new experiences, you’ll remember them in greater detail later on.

Do you have a journal or a topic you enjoy writing about? Let us know in the comments!

 

References:

https://journals.uvic.ca/index.php/WPLC/article/download/5160/2132 [1][2]

https://www.healthline.com/health/stress/effects-on-body#1 [3]

https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/advances-in-psychiatric-treatment/article/emotional-and-physical-health-benefits-of-expressive-writing/ED2976A61F5DE56B46F07A1CE9EA9F9F [4]

https://www.mic.com/impact/science-shows-something-surprising-about-people-who-still-journal-16207322#.n0QO5ApTN [5]

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.3102/00346543066001053 [6]

https://www.apa.org/monitor/jun02/writing [7]

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/writing-can-help-injuries-heal-faster/ [8]

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/wealth/earn/boost-these-hormones-to-succeed-as-a-leader-at-work/articleshow/66988190.cms?from=mdr#:~:text=DOSE%E2%80%94Dopamine%2C%https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-healthy-type/ [9]